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Intimate Gestures, Intimate Trust
Relationships are enhanced by a sense of closeness which deepens trust and commitment. This article presents 6 areas of intimacy that are sometimes overlooked in both the emotional and physical realms. Paying attention to them will make your relationship deeper, healthier, and more fun! The 6 Intimate Secrets That Really Work 1.Ask with your words, your eyes, your actions… just be sure you have asked clearly. Your loving questions will add to the anticipation your partner is feeling, heightening the sense of intimacy.
2. Look your partner in the eye. OK, so you know how to do this one, but here’s the harder part: make your eyes soft and gentle by reflecting on passion – the loving, respectful yet playful kind of passion of movie stars and fairy tales. Communicate your desire to please with your gentle, passionate and inviting eyes. 3. Think only of your partner. I know, not what most books tell you, right? But in order to enhance intimacy you must focus on your partner, not yourself. Most books tell you fantasizing is fine, that it adds to the luster of the moment. We all know how those mental fantasies work, and how valuable they can be sometimes. But for your partner to have a truly intimate experience you need to be focused totally on him/her. And you will be very glad you were. 4. Try this: let your energy run through every cell of your body, by becoming conscious of every place your body touches your partner’s body…and every place you wish it could. Pay more attention to how your partner experiences that sensual pleasure than to how you do. Think of it as a Zen experiment, where your focus is relaxed but oh, so intent! It’s as if you are slowly realizing how close you really are. 5. Send your sensual energy, with that great internal, focused passion you discovered in tip number 4, to any part of your body that touches your partner’s body. Feel the heat on your skin flowing to your partner. 6. Prepare to stop on a dime if your partner says “no” at any point. There is little that evokes trust and relational intimacy more than respect and consideration.
Partners often have trouble talking about these intimate details, so being prepared with ideas like these will help you get the communication going. There you have it! 6 tips that you can put into action immediately, and expand upon at will.
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Contributor's Note
Face to face coaching and counseling on all realtionahip and individual issues is available in the greater Sarasota, FL, area. Distance based coaching and counseling is also available. liss@solidgoldmarriage.com
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